
Marcus grabs his drink and sits down at a table. He sits his drink on the table in front of the lady that is sitting across from him. He gently touches her hand and she puts her head down and begins to softly wipe the spilled coffee that is on the table with a Starbucks napkin. Here is their conversation:
Marcus- "We are going to get through this."
Female-"I don't know Marcus, a baby?"
Marcus-"I know, I know, I really fucked up but I still have to be there for my child."
Female-"What about being there for us?"
Marcus-"I will be there but what type of man would I be if I didn't take care of my seed?"
Female-"What type pf man would cheat on his wife? You didn't just hurt me you hurt our entire family. How am I going to explain to our son that he has another brother or sister by someone other than his mother?"
Marcus-"I'll tell him that men Fuck up and that he'll understand when he becomes a man!"
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Men are often excused for their infidelities by the simple fact that they are men. Women will often stay with a man after he's cheated but men don't seem to stay with the woman. Is it a territorial thing? They have a problem forgetting the fact that another man "marked" their territory. Cheating is definitely universal to women and men of all races. I was told once that a man can cheat and still love his girlfriend or wife. I don't know if I necessarily agree with that but I do know that men will cheat for physical reasons and women usually cheat because they are missing something emotional from their mate. Here are a few signs to know when a person is cheating:
- Cell phone is always mysteriously dead or turned off when you call
- Cell phone is always turned off when they are with you
- Never met his/her family
- Always working late
- Always text messaging (this is a new thing, why text message unless there is something that they don't want to say in front of you
- The person doesn't like to go to very crowded places, i.e. malls, festivals etc)
- Cell phone has a security code so that no one can call out or browse through the call log without a password
